Thursday, 24 March 2016

#SAY NO TO XENOPHOBIA.



BLACK HISTORY

South Africa is well known for icons like Nelson Mandela who amoungst other freedom fighters who fought against apartheid, back then black people stood together in fighting the apartheid system that denied black people the same opportunities that white people had. the system oppressed black people in a way that they were denied equality among white people , white people were superior .



black icons fought for black equality and black people where expected to stand together during the struggle.




Xenophobia Factors

Its sad how that similar system has turned on black on black where our fellow black sisters and brother's who happen to come from other sides of Africa are being set out on light , killed, assaulted and discriminated all in the name of women yes women, houses that they do not even qualify to have, and so called business opportunities. this are all mere excuses that makes South Africans that are xenophobic to fight one of their people.xenophobia

families being attacked because they are not from South Africa




how can people steal jobs where else south Africans have been complaining for years that there are no jobs how can someone who has no to little education possibly steal jobs that do not even exits ,this seems to bother me it makes no sense. burning , murdering and assaulting other black people who only differ from us by nationality and we quick to raise the racism card when white people say or do something that seems to offend us main while we fail to love people that are within our race  and we turn around and expect white people who are racist to  love us or at least respect us why people are xenophobic 



black people should learn to love each other.


I simply say its jealousy, foreigners work very hard in every thing that they do ,they are hard working people who  make a living in anything that they offered to do even though they are paid peanuts they appreciate the little that they get  and their level of hard work stays the same.I happen to know people that are xenophobic young educated people that hurt people that have the same hair type, skin color including eye color xenophobic attacks strike universities. it shocks me how people think that including myself thought that people that indulge in this kind of behaviors are people that are not educated enough about black history and how same African countries helped South Africans freedom fighters who where wanted by the police back then in the apartheid era  to hide in their countries while we where treated like they are being treated now.




other African countries helped South Africa during the apartheid era. 




Black people have lost their roots I do not even think they notice that they are also black hence they fight other black people that are merely trying to make a living out of creating their own business opportunities that south Africans turn around and say that those same business ideas that where turned into businesses are theirs .South Africa as a whole has a problem with discrimination if people are not decriminated for their nationality they are either discriminated according to their ethnic groups. black people find it hard to accept  people for where they come from and for who they are.its a struggle that we as South African should fight against black on black discrimination.xenophobic attacks because of jobs

we are all foreigners 

which brings me to the issue  of skin bleaching amoungst black  people,the rate of young women and women in general that bleach their skin increases every month if not every day , we have been brain washed in to thinking that  black  is not beautiful I once had a short conversation with my guy friend about beauty and I asked him a few questions about skin colours and what he sees as beauty I was not surprised at all by his answer,  he said to me that dark women are not pretty and that you need to analyze them before you could see beauty in them. the rest of the conversation is obvious he likes light skin women as opposed to dark skinned .women are not proud to be black enough they some how see the need to make their selves lighter , this forms another issue that we have to fight with, how ca we love on others for being black when see the need to change our selves in being light skinned even if we were not born that way why black women bleach


black people and up bleaching their skin because they do not want to be black enough.

A video on Zimbabwe s leader views on xenophobia.

Way forward

In order to move forward in fighting xenophobia to stop we first must learn to love each other as black people and accept each others differences. xenophobic attacks are totally unacceptable we as south Africans need to unite together in fighting this cruelty called xenophobia all Africans lives matter .



school children are also affected by xenophobic attacks they fear for their lives as they are known by their communities that they are foreigners. schools should be a safe place for all children that attend it. xenophobia should stop and i plea to people that are xenophobic and are reading this to please change their minds sets on how they see people from other countries 

Wednesday, 23 March 2016



#SCOTUS MARRIAGE.




A  video of a speech from the president of the USA about SCOTUS marriage.


Christians views


As a young women who grow up under a Christian household, I all ways knew when growing up that being gay is totally wrong and it is considered a sin in the eyes of GOD Christians believes on being guy hence people that are guy are not allowed to come to my church   but they  come either way and they are accommodated which sometimes confuses me but I guess the elders of my church somehow think that they can make them repent so chasing them away will block that from happening, with that said I have nothing against people that choose to be guy or who grew up being guy  I actually love them especially gay man they are just full of live .church views on gay marriage.


love does not choose 


Life with my gay friend


So there was this one time when I was with my guy gay friend  at home we were busy with our own stuff and I had to go to the loo and he decided to come with, I some how felt comfortable being in there with him it was like being in the ladies with one of my girls he even fixed my hair better then I do. if only people would change their minds about being gay they would know how wonderful this people are. here is an artical USA gay citizen fought for their marriages to be legal same sex marriage




my life with my gay friend





Coming out to family and friends

I  respect them for coming out and being involved in gay relationships, I honestly do not think that human beings in general choose who they truly get attracted to  it is something that comes naturally, our minds where just tricked into thinking that what gay people are doing is wrong through the word of GOD and other church's that preach that same believe some people shy  away from that attraction and some do not like guy people they have learned to embarrass that attraction but in their  case they just get attracted to people that are considered a taboo to be attracted to, which are people within their sex or gender if i may put it coming out.





gay couple raising  babies together 




Fighting obsticals 


 I actually happen to know a gay couple who have been together for years and their love is totally inspiring they made me realize that love does not choose and if two people bring out the best in each other they deserve to be together, though life has not been easy for them as gay people face horrifying challenges same gay women get assaulted not to mention being killed and being rapped for living their own life the way they want to.we all have the right to live life the way we want to,I don't see how people think they have the right to assault and hurt other people just because they chose to be in a relationship with who they love it's their relationship and not the society's so judging and forcing them to change is honestly selfish of those who think they have the right to interfere Gay murder




gay people should not be excluded 



Embracing gay life Relationships are between two people how they chose to conduct it is between them if it makes them happy so be it after all happiness is the key to a relationship why be with someone just because it's the right thing to do I'll rather do wrong and live a care free live not to mention a happy one.How to have a healthy gay relationship Never mind what the world thinks of you if you want to be in a gay relationship you welcomed as long as you are happy with who you are and you are willing to face the challenges that come with embracing  who you truly are .
A happy gay couple.


Dealing with families rejection of gay life

Families make it impossible to live a gay life they fear the embarrassment and gossips that come with having a child who is gay,people that are gay are forced to live a straight life,they parents make them believe that they  are confused  and its just a phrase that will pass but we all know that gay people are not going through a phase being gay is who they truly are,families deny them to enjoy their gay lives and they are constantly watched and forced in to doing what straight people do, same gay man end up being in a relationship with women that they do not love all because they are trying to convince their families that they are not gay,what this people are doing is called living a lie gay people end up having babies with straight people all because they wanted to live what is called a normal life this babies grow up being confused .







coming out to parents has never been an easy thing to do but it brings peace in knowing that you do not  have to hide who you truly are





Gay pride 
being gay is something that no person should be afraid of being if you are truly gay and you feel at peace and it brings nothing but joy to your life when you embrace it,although it will not be an easy journey, coming out and trying to live your gay life freely its a journey worth traveling if you ask me a life were by you have dealt with challenges or willing to challenge of coming out to people that are close to you even though same or even all of them will not approve of your gay life, you will live a free gay life where you wont have to hide from the world.
being proud of being different.




Positivists of being true to your self

obsticals will always be in our lives weather we are gay or not we all are judge of the choices that we take as human beings. so even if you hide the fact that you gay,you will be judged and excluded in somethings in this world that we live in,my advice would be to live life as long as you are happy and willing to life with the decision that you took to life an honest life. we all owe it to our self to enjoy life and to be proud of who we truly are even though the world does not approve of our life styles.




staying true to your self